The Happiness of the Pursuit


I was listening to Andrew Huberman on a podcast when he said something that instantly clicked. He was quoting Dr. Robert Sapolsky:

“Dopamine is not about the pursuit of happiness, it is about the happiness of the pursuit.”

And I thought, yes. That’s the science behind what I’ve been teaching for years.

So often, we treat happiness like a destination. Something we’ll feel when the circumstances finally line up. When we have the job, the relationship, the money, the clarity, the freedom. We see it as something to chase and catch. But that’s not how it works. And on some level, I think we all know it.

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Full Moon in Sagittarius


This Full Moon is asking us to look at where we're caught in those patterns. Are you staying in the mental spin of Gemini, gathering ideas and perspectives but avoiding the quiet space where wisdom actually lands? Are you hiding behind the boldness of Sagittarius, needing to be right, needing to know, needing to have a grand purpose when what's really needed is presence and honesty? Are you using your voice to appear confident instead of speaking from where you actually are?

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