Before we decided to have Porter, Will and I were convinced that we weren’t going to be parents in this lifetime.

 

We both worked in the restaurant industry, which was consuming and oftentimes chaotic.

 

We had no time for each other, let alone a child.

 

And, honestly, things were rocky between us.

 

We fought…a lot.

 

My anxiety was constantly through the roof, and I just never felt settled.

 

I wasn’t happy and that unhappiness leaked into every aspect of my life.

 

When life is hard or chaotic, it’s difficult to see a different future. We feel trapped.

 

The relationship we have with ourselves is so often reflected in the relationships we have with everything else.

 

And so it really wasn’t until I started transforming my relationship with myself that my relationship with everything changed.

 

I discovered the power of boundaries and learned how to receive help.

 

I started meditating daily and got super clear on what I wanted and how I wanted to achieve that.

 

I worked with a coach who gave me the push I needed to actually go for that dream.

 

And along the way…my marriage started healing.

 

It wasn’t a magical snap of the fingers sort of thing.

 

I worked hard for it. In all the areas of my life.

 

My relationship with my husband was finally peaceful.

 

I found an amazing group of friends that became my ride or die posse.

 

I embarked on a career that supported my nervous system and my finances.

 

I developed a deeper relationship with meditation and found a sense of inner calm.

 

And while it took some time, the decision to start trying to have a baby happened all at once.

 

I was on the couch with Will one night and said: “do you want someone to call you dad?”

 

And that was the spark that lit the match that brought me to laying on the floor next to my 3 year old while he falls asleep.

 

We spend 8 weeks going DEEP into all facets of our relationships in my group coaching program SHIFT, because that’s how important learning how to optimize them is.

 

Whether it’s a romantic relationship, a friendship, your relationship with work, your relationship with your children or your family, your relationship with yourself…we cover it.

 

You’ll learn how to show up for the relationships you want, how to be courageous, how to stay true to yourself, how to resolve conflict, how to love yourself, how to love your body, and how to navigate being triggered by others.

 

Our relationships are the literal foundation of our lives, and the blueprint for how we experience the world.

 

And SHIFT gives you the opportunity to transform them into what you’ve always hoped for, so you can transform your life into what you’ve always dreamed of.

 

SHIFT is the most powerful program out there because it gives you not only the understanding of what needs to happen to create the life of your dreams, but also because it teaches you to embody the changes you make along the way.

 

Your life changes in the ways you need it to so your life can 

change in the way you want it to.

 

That’s why we call it SHIFT. 

If you want to shift, but aren’t ready for the whole year commitment-

join pilar1 foundations of Manifestation.

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